With the idea in mind, many places were explored around the hospice, looking to find the perfect space, a place that needed a loving touch.  One place in particular was the small courtyard where the patients would sit, finding a quiet place in the sun, a space for thought and contemplation.

The courtyard needed something ‘unique and appropriate’ and it was the perfect setting for the tree of remembrance. “It came to my mind that I would like to grow a tree in the court yard. A painted tree against the court yard wall. A tree that we, the staff, the patients, their loved ones and friends could add to, leaf by leaf. A tree whose leaves would shimmer silver in the sunlight and could still be seen on the darkest day.” says Diane. With that picture in mind, a well trusted artist was called on, who immediately understood the concept and brought it to life.

On the painted tree, each leaf has a space for a small plaque and family members, on the death of their loved one, and in their own time, choose a leaf on which to place their plaque. A simple ceremony is arranged, a gentle word, a pot of tea, a place provided for love, compassion and remembrance. These lovingly placed plaques create a shimmer as you look at the tree and the staff, patients and their families are reminded of the beauty of life.

“The tree, which is outside the small chapel brings a mindfulness to all those who visit the hospice” says Diane. “Many people find it difficult returning after a loved one has died, however coming back to choose a leaf and  stand in ceremony, brings much comfort and affirmation to the bereaved and to the dedicated team who care for every patient with love and compassion.”